‘Grandma’s Tattoos’: A Riveting Film About the Forgotten Women of Genocide (Trailers)

Director: Suzanne Khardalian
Producer: HB PeA Holmquist Film
Length: 58 min., Sweden
Date of release: September 2011

STOCKHOLM, Sweden—“Grandma Khanoum was not like everyone else. As a child I remember her as a wicked woman. She despised physical contact. This was a grandma who never hugged, gave no kisses. And she wore those gloves, which hid her hands and the tattoos. They hid her secret.” This is how Suzanne Khardalian describes her grandmother.

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Grandma Khanoum

Khardalian is the director and producer of riveting new film called “Grandma’s Tattoos” that lifts the veil of thousands of forgotten women—survivors of the Armenian Genocide—who were forced into prostitution and tattooed to distinguish them from the locals.

“As a child I thought these were devilish signs that came from a dark world. They stirred fear in me. What were these tattoos? Who had done them, and why? But the tattoos on grandma’s hands and face were a taboo. They never spoke about it,” explains Khardalian.

“Grandma’s Tattoos” is a journey into the secrets of the family. Eventually, the secret behind Grandma Khanoum’s blue marks are revealed.

“Grandma was abducted and kept in slavery for many years somewhere in Turkey. She was also forcibly marked—tattooed—as property, the same way you mark cattle. The discovery of the story has shaken me. I share the shame, the guilt, and anger that infected my grandma’s life. Grandma Khanoum’s fate was not an aberration. On the contrary, tens of thousands of Armenian children and teenagers were raped and abducted, kept in slavery,” she explains.

In 1919, just at the end of World War I, the Allied forces reclaimed 90,819 Armenian young girls and children who, during the war years, were forced to become prostitutes to survive, or had given birth to children after forced or arranged marriages or rape. Many of these women were tattooed as a sign that they belonged to abductor. European and American missionaries organized help and saved thousands of refugees who were later scattered all over the world to places like Beirut, Marseille, and Fresno.

The story of “Grandma’s Tattoos” is a personal film about what happened to many Armenian women during the genocide. It is a ghost story—with the ghosts of the tattooed women haunting us—and a mystery film, where many taboos are broken. As no one wants to tell the reel and whole story, and in order to bring the pieces of the puzzle together, the director makes us move between different times and space, from today’s Sweden to Khardalian’s childhood in Beirut.

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In the film we meet Grandma Khantoum’s sister, 98-year-old Lucia, who lives in Hollywood. Lucia, too, has those odd tattoos. She is willing to tell us only a part of the story. We also meet with Aunt Marie, Grandma’s only still-living child in Beirut. But Aunt Marie doesn’t know the whole story either. Grandma has never told it to her. It was forbidden to talk about the “unspeakable.” Aunt Marie has the same unpleasant memories as the rest of the family.

It’s finally Khardalian’s mother who tells the story about Grandma Khanoum, and about the Kurdish man who was supposed to her grandma escape the killings but instead decided to abduct her and keep her as his concubine. Grandma was only a child then. She had just turned 12 The words “Mummy, mummy help me” is the sentence that haunts Suzanne and her family.

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About the Director

Suzanne Khardalian is an independent filmmaker and writer. She studied journalism in Beirut and Paris and worked as a journalist in Paris until 1985, when she started to work on films. She also holds a master’s degree in international law and diplomacy from the Fletcher School at Tufts University, and contributes articles to different journals. She has directed more than 20 films that have been shown both in Europe and the U.S. They include “Back to Ararat” (1988), “Unsafe Ground” (1993), “The Lion from Gaza” (1996), “Her Armenian Prince” (1997), “From Opium to Chrysanthemums” (2000), “Where Lies My Victory” (2002), “I Hate Dogs” (2005), “Bullshit” (2006), and “Young Freud in Gaza” (2009).

Producer

PeA Holmquist Film is a production company established in 1973.The company has been producing films mostly for Scandinavian TV channels often with Scandinavian co-producers. Several films have been sold all over the world.

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  1. avatar

    So glad this is being released.  When can we see it?

  2. avatar

    Very moving  and heart rendering.What  Suzanne Khardalian has  discovered  re her grandma and a made  a film  of it. For her and others information here  in Florida,a Trio,headed  by film maker-mainly documentaries- Bared  Maronian, have dared  into filming “Orphans of the Genocide”which reveals  how Jemal pasha and his Fetieh something  lover  in the outskirts of Beirut  turkified  over a thousand Armenian orphans. The 18 minute   trailer  has already been there for a few months  or more-in which I too have a word  or two re my orphaned mother,her family Saga  though is in Nakhijevan the azeri occupied  Large Armenian Province. Then ,;later , Maronian  has included survivor  Dr. Jack Kevorkian-prior to his passing- and then famous journalist  Robert  Fisk  of the Independent. The real long length over an hour  documentary is slated to be shown  later  this year. Now some comments on my behalf,not on above,but./
    Years ago I came across book   ”  m a m i g o n ”  by Jack Hashian,American writer, which is the perfect  story to be  made into a feature film.Indeed script  to be written ,if possible  by someone  like  the Armenian American who wrote  Schindler”s  List.
    I promise  the story  in this volume  is ,can be  much more thrilling  than Schindlerss.
    It begins  in Western Armenia , masacers etc., but story woven around   a one man”s saga,his family and close  turkish officer  friend who betrays  him  and then the plot  ends in Boston, after  a  very arduous, tough  and drilling  pursuit by   Mamigon  in the Armenian Highlands  etc., etc., etc.
    Hope  Suzanne will have time to get the book and read  it and think over  it…
    best  Luck and \
    Hama haigagani SIRO
    P.S. Time we came out  with a feature film that besides  Genocide, shows  the valiant  Mamigon , depicting the Armenian spirit  to survive and also… 

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    Hi,
    This movie has to show in Turkey. Turkish people must know what happened in the past.
    Best wishes and hope to see  and live together with all Armenians in their motherland.

  4. avatar

    When can we see this film. It’s very touching and sad.

  5. avatar

    Absolutely touching and sad.. truly sad… we should send this film to every govt that refuses to acknowledge the Genocide..everyone of them…

    Thank you Suzanne…

    Please let us know when this will air…

    Gayane

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    Istanbul- are you of Turkish origin…. if you are, you are one special individual.. we need more Turks like you

  7. avatar

    sounds like a must-see film. i have seen photos of the face and hand tattoos and gathered that they were ownership markings, but never connected it with prostitution. the more pieces that fall together in the genocide puzzle, the uglier it gets. 

  8. avatar

    I am facinated and will be axiously awaiting the release of this film. So much not shared. And perhaps so much overshared. If all of these women were tattooed, how can the denial continue. What reason would this be done? I will never forget, and I will always tell the truths that I was told….

  9. avatar

    Their name The SICK MAN OF EUROPE was not given for nothing..

  10. avatar

    Lucine jan, Isn’t this a very sad story left from the Armenian Genocide?  Is it any wonder that a great many of our young girls and women during the genocide used to hold hands and together they jumped in the Yeprad or the Dikris rivers to kill themselves so that such things wouldn’t happen to them?  This is why they jumped in the river and get killed, for such things not to happen that they won’t have to live in shame for the rest of their lives.

    Yet in another thread called “Stepping out of Ottoman Archives, Diplomat says “We Really Slaughtered Them!” a supposedly an Armenian man addressed to me in Armenian saying that ”while we are so little in numbers and while both our enemy as well as Russia are much greater in numbers and much stronger than us, there is no use fighting for the Armenian Genocide.  I answered him back of course.  Just check it out and see what I wrote back to him in Armenian.   

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    Hi Gayane,
    I am Turkish origin, ı have been living in Istanbul, I am from Yozgat originly. Lots of Turkish origin people think like me, lots of tv programs have been making, lots of books have been publishing about genocide or meds yeghern or whatever you called it. When we listen, watch or read… when we learn, it is really difficult, it is really painfull. Please dont hate from Turkish people, they dont know but when they learn about the truths,… please belive their tears.
     

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      Thank you!

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    Hello Istanbul,

    I understand your reluctance and pain…which is why I said we need more people like you.. you are one special individual.. Unfortunately, we have not met too many Turks on these pages who think like you.. on the contrary, VERY Anti-ARmenian and Deniars of GEnocide… and you know what hurts the most? Is that they have all the information tha they need, they have been presented with all the facts, but yet they still look at you and lie to your face and deny all the way….

    We have repeated many times on these pages my dear Istanbul, that Armenians don’t hate the ordinary TUrks.. we never did and will never do.. We hate the manipulation, the lies, and the denial of the Turkish govt as well as those who follow the govt’s ugly tail: them hard core deniars of such an autrocities..     

    I thank you for our courage… and you have my respect for standing up against all odds and declaring justice/truth your #1 priority…

    GOd Bless 

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    Thank you Istanbul for your sympathetic heart towards our people.  Same as Gayane my sister, I also welcome truly progressive Turks like yourself who show compassion towards us and our cause.

  14. avatar

    long live the brotherhood of the Kurdish and Armenian

  15. avatar

    Thank you for the film, but when and how we can see it?

  16. avatar

    very interesting,reminds me about my grandma Mary Der Haroutounian(Marash region),and i think i saw her photo in your cleap,the lady wearing nuns cloth,my mom has the same photo,from Siria.My grandmother used to work in french catholic hospital…1930 ..her face on the forhead,chin she had  tattos,and my mom said she never shared her story,,,she always said that”i can not tell,you better not know about it…its not a pleasant story…and her eys will fill with the  tears” 
    i can not wait to see the film.
    please let me know when will be open for public to see.
    Thank you for an important job you are doing for our new generations to come…Good luck.
    with regards Lolita Babikian,new york  

  17. avatar

    Another sad untold story of thousands of young Armenian women during the Genocide. I can’t help but feel sad and appalled for these vicious acts of crime that still yet to be acknowledged by the rest of the world.
    Thank you Suzanne for having the guts and the insight to overcome your own feelings and make this film, that i am sure will unveil many other stories related to the Genocide. I like to take this chance to salute and bow in respect to those many Armenian young women who were viciously victimized , I wish they could hear me. I would shout to them, “I am so proud of you , you have no reason to feel ashamed or belittled. , i will wash your hands and your faces with my tears , for you have suffered too much.”
    PS I am watching the news. VIVA LA FRANCE. France just passed the “Genocide Bill” Armenians Forever.

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    are you sure these tattooes were really made by muslim slave holders? islam forbids tattooing.. in croatia and parts of eastern europe, christian women were tattooed so they won’t lose their identity should they get kidnapped or forcibly converted.. same thing goes for coptic women in egypt

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      no we are not sure: we made it up, because we have nothing better to do.

      Your PM Erdogan also stated publicly that there could not have been a Genocide in Sudan:

      {“Turkish Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdogan continued his government’s denial of the ongoing genocide in Darfur on Sunday, questioning International Criminal Court (ICC) charges against Sudanese President Omar al-Bashir on grounds that “no Muslim could perpetrate a genocide,” the Turkish Today’s Zaman newspaper reported Monday.”} (TodaysZaman 2009)

      Is there a special school you guys go to – to learn really primitive AG Denial methods ?
      I mean, we have already seen much more sophisticated Turcophile Denialist agents: why do they keep sending amateurs ?

  19. avatar

    Of course lot’s of Turks know about the Armenian exile and feel miserable about it. They have a problem with the word Genocide because of its connotations to the irrational hatred of Jews in Nazi Germany and the horror upon horrors they commited. I think change the word for now to help conversation.
    Turks can’t connect in any way to an old empire that they themselves wanted to be rid of. Also because the country was as miserable of a place as Afganistan – it had nothing back then, not one factory. Children were eating grass they were so hungry and poor.Turkey’s main goal then was was fighting for independance from colonial powers, not to kill poor Armenians, while Nazi Germany’s main goal was Genocide. Also, those Turkish leaders responsible were supposedly court marshalled, weren’t they?. Eastern Turkey is like another world for us city Turks. It’s not even safe for us!
    Change the word Genocide to massacre maybe? Unfortunately Turkey still has many uneducated conservative people as well as very nationalistic people just like many other countries. It might be a few more years before it can be spoken about calmly without emotion, denial, shame. Unfortunately wide racial hatred and murders exist today and will in the future and that is something we can still so something about. Also collective healing and bridging between countries. For example, an Armenian exhibit or handmade carpets and needlework could be on display in one of the fine galleries in Istanbul. We have an Armenian school in Istanbul. The schools do projects with each other.

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      Your entire post is an insult to the intelligence of Armenians and is an insult to our exterminated ancestors.

      The reason I consider it an insult is because I assume you are intelligent person.
      No intelligent person – who obviously has access to the internet – can write what you wrote, without deliberately being contemptuous of Armenians.

      You want to us change the word Genocide to massacre, maybe ?
      Why not also change “Armenian Genocide” to “Turk Genocide” ? – maybe.
      Armenians “genocided” the Turks (it’s a new word: look it up)

      People like you still think you are dealing with gyavurs: keep thinking that.
      We like being underestimated.

  20. avatar

    Aisha,

    I appreciate the sympathetic tone of your post, but not its substance. I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that your position, progressive as you may think it to be, is the product of laziness at best.

    Should we assume from your pen name that you are not a Kemalist?

    No human being will compromise the truth of what happened to 3.5M Greeks, Pontians, Assyrians and Armenians to make it more palatable to Turks. We will not make it “Genocide light” or merely “massacres”, which implies an episode rather than a thorough plan.

    You kid yourself if you think the state did not want Armenians killed for being Armenians. There is enormous scholarship out there which is available to us all, including in Turkish. Just recently published are the annals of the trials.

    The definition of Genocide does not require that the murder of Anatolian and European Christians by the OE fit the Jewish template. The man who coined the word Genocide had both Genocides in mind.

    You also show profound ignorance. In the east, Christians had hundreds of factories and were the basis of a good economy. As Umit Ungor’s recently published book shows, this wealth and productivity was stolen by Turks.

    Finally, we do not sympathize with your implicit racism against Kurds. Many Kurds refused to kill our grandparents, thousands more defended them. They like us have always inhabited the lands. If Turks treated Kurds justly, you would have no fear of walking among them. City Turks may be advanced, but Kemalists are also the Nazis in your society.

    If you live in the US,what have you done to speak against the racism of groups like ATAA and its Nazi leaders?

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      Well done JDA.. great reply to Aisha…

      Aisha seems to be another one who tries hard to throw in and change the complexity of Genocide… trying to minimize the planned event against a race is an attempt of a denialist… She may sound sympathetic but her wording was chosen very carefully and it was done in the intend to AGAIN change the course of what Armenians are trying to do.. but no surprise to us, she will not succeed…

  21. avatar

    Well done. I saw the film yesterday at Worcester State University in Massachusetts. The film covered a rarely talked about subject. It was poignant and compelling in the exploration of not only the survivor in the story, but also in how it impacted the lives of her children and grandchildren.

    There was a thoughtul panel discussion after that filled in many of the details surrounding the time period and political climate. I wish that some of the additional information provided by the panel was provided in the film itself – particularly the parts about the reintegration of the women back into their communities.

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